Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Relocating

It's true... After 8 cumulative years, one wedding, two graduations, and a baby, we are officially leaving Utah. So the company Jade works for is changing the way they're run, and instead of having one corporate office in Provo, with lots of smaller offices around the country who report to the corporate office, they're turning it into a franchise-type company, where each area will be wholly self-sufficient. They offered all the upper-management the chance to buy a franchise, and Jade was given first pick, so he chose the area that's been the top-market every year, which coincidentally is Portland! So the company is initiating the change after the summer term is over, which means we'll be packing up and moving to Oregon at the end of August. We're not sure how permanent this move will be, because it all depends on how well the business works out. We're keeping our house here, mostly because we would lose a ton of money if we sold it now, but also "just in case" things don't work out in Portland. This isn't the business Jade wants to be in for the rest of his life, so he hopes to just get it running super well so it can basically run itself, and he can just take a backseat and do what he really wants to do: sell insurance. So we could be in Portland anywhere from 5 months to a couple years. Anyone who knows me well, knows that I'm not exactly the biggest fan of Utah. I don't hate it here, and I'm not unhappy here, but it's just not where I want to live long-term, it was more of my get-the-degree-and-get-out-of-there place, and I did not want to be here any longer than that. Despite those feelings, this move is going to be really bittersweet for me. I actually can't believe I'm saying this, and Jade will probably give me grief about it for years to come, but there's a lot I'm going to miss about Utah. Here's my list: Jerai, Phil, Boyd and Remy (Tink is going to miss her best friend SO much, and Peyton is really disappointed because she and Boyd had been planning on living really close and being best friends). I can't articulate how sad I am that we're not going to be living in the same zip-code as the Moultons anymore. It's been great the past few months, and I wish you guys were moving with us! Stephanie Holt, my resident best friend and best hairdresser. That girl was my sanity while I was in Utah, and I'm so glad her and Jade went on that non-date shooting date and became friends, so that when I met Jade, I became best friends with her. Steph, I'm going to miss you like crazy. This just means you're going to have to visit home more often since Seattle and Portland are so close!! The guys from Stampede and their wives. You all have been such fun friends. I'm glad most of you are staying with Stampede, so we'll always be connected. All my friends from A and F. Thanks for making my pregnancy so much fun. I could not have asked for a better pre-baby job, and I'm so glad I got to know you all. You better stay in touch. Our friends from Sleepy Ridge. Who knew we would actually have some really cool people in our ward! I was so skeptical about Utahns before I moved into this ward (sorry to be so judgmental, but it's the truth. I was a cynic). Living right on the golf course. It's been great playing all the golf and night-golf we wanted, and Tinky had the best backyard ever. We're really going to miss that. Knowing the best place for a wax, a massage, a manicure, a pedicure, a chocolate-banana milkshake, Mexican Food, Italian Food, Brazilian Food, and Steak. Knowing how to navigate my way around. I'm going to be absolutely clueless in Portland, and I'm not going to know where anything is. Utah-only places: Trendy Tots Boutique, Rod Works, Burger Supreme, Tucanos (there's one in Colorado, too, but that doesn't help me), Pita Pit, Prime Steak, Steak Out, the little Italian hole-in-the-wall in Provo, and Joe Vera's. BYU football games. It's been so fun being a BYU groupie, following the team and watching our friends play so well. We'll still be watching every game, but it's not the same! My entourage: Dr. Judd, the best OB/GYN ever, Dr. Wynn, who is the top pediatrician in Utah and we're so glad he accepted us as patients even though he has a closed practice, Dr. Robinson, who was a great dentist and rescued me from a really bad dentist, Jessica and Debbi, the best nurses of all time, and Orem Community Hospital- I couldn't have asked for a better place to deliver my baby, and I might just have to come back to Utah to deliver any and all subsequent children. Coaching cheerleading. The temperature in June, July, and August. Portland isn't as hot in the summer as Utah, and I'm going to miss hot summers. Utah has been pretty good to us the past few years, and thank goodness we both moved here! Thanks to everyone who made it bearable. I'm actually going to miss a lot about Utah, but I'm so excited to move to Portland (I call it a "real city") and I can't wait to live so close to family. This is going to be a big adventure for us. Wish us luck!!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

What a blessing!

She can never resist making her stink face

I can hardly believe she's old enough, but Sunday was Peyton's blessing day! It was an amazing experience to hear my husband bless my daughter. It was so surreal. Jade gave such a sweet blessing, and I was able to record it and transcribe it, so now Peyton will have a copy of her blessing forever. What an incredible daddy/daughter bonding moment. We were so lucky that almost all of our family were able to come into town to be there. All we were missing from our immediate family was JaNea and Nipper and the boys (plus the triplets-to-be!). I cannot express in words how amazing that experience was, but it brings me to (happy) tears to think about it. It was a truly phenomenal day, and I'm so grateful that (almost) all the people I love were there to celebrate.


Friday, July 18, 2008

Happy Friday

It's been such a great week so far! My mom and the kids came up Monday, and we've been having so much fun. It's been wonderful having my mom back again. I wish she wouldn't ever leave. I'm just glad I'm able to see them so often- I know not everyone is lucky enough to get their mommy for 3 of the first 4 1/2 weeks of their baby's life. We went to Lagoon yesterday. For everyone who has never had the privilege of living in Utah, Lagoon is a cross between Disneyland and Universal Studios, only not as clean as Disneyland and not as big as Universal Studios. Besides all the men in tank tops, it was actually really fun, and we had such a good time. Peyton was really good, but I think overstimulated because she barely slept at all, and she was really cranky when we left the park. Also, her newborn pictures are finally done. Amazing!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

A week in review

Our girls on the 4th of July We've been busy the past week! On Wednesday, Peyton took her first road trip, up to Idaho for Jade's work. We also had another first- her first time on a golf course! We stopped in Pocatello on our way to Rexburg and played a round with my best friend Megan and her soon-to-be husband (2 weeks!) Ryan. We just put her car seat in the golf cart and she slept away. I'm pretty sure it was against a rule, but it was a public golf course, so no one said anything to us. Another first- Peyton's first professional athletic event. When we got back from Idaho, we went to the Minor League baseball game and watched the Orem Owls get stomped on by some other team. Peyton basically slept the entire time... Apparently baseball isn't her thing. For the 4th of July, Jade planned (in typical Jade fashion) an over the top scheme for us to watch the huge fireworks show at Stadium of Fire. Friday morning he drove his truck, with the 4 wheeler and bike, to the top of Squaw Peak, one of the mountains with a view of all Provo, parked his truck at the top, hid the 4 wheeler about halfway down the mountain, then he rode his bike home. When it was time for the show, the place was packed. They weren't even letting people drive past the halfway point up the mountain. So we 4-wheeled up to his truck that was backed into the best parking spot, where we could see everything. Jade put a mattress in the bed of the truck and blankets and pillows and we watched little fireworks that people were setting off in the Valley, as well as the 15 minute Stadium of Fire fireworks show. It was incredible, and we had the best seat in the house. My thoughtful guy even made a dutch oven dinner for us to eat after the show was over. Peyton was an angel, and she didn't even notice the fireworks. Being with my husband and baby was the best way to celebrate the 4th. We're so grateful to live in this beautiful country and enjoy so many freedoms. And, we really hope America doesn't ruin it by electing that Obama man. The past few days were the first Peyton has been really fussy, and I am exhausted! Now I know what they mean when they say sleep-deprived. I'm hoping it's just a phase and she'll go back to normal sometime soon, because this is not the baby I'm used to. I just wish my momma would come back and rescue me! Lastly, Jade had the championship softball tournament the past two days. Since it was double elimination and they were in the loser's bracket, on Monday they had a series of games, and if they won, they kept playing, if they lost, it was the end of the season. They ended up winning every game, so they had to play 4 games in a row! The last team they beat was the first place team, and they hadn't lost, so since it was a double elimination tournament, they played that team again last night. It was a great game, the guys played really well, but we lost by 3 runs. Jade played so well though, and even has a battle wound from sliding into home wearing just gym shorts. At least he scored the run! 2nd place is nothing to be ashamed of!
At the golf course
At the baseball game

Look at how she's sleeping- she wriggled out of her swaddling so she could have her hands by her face. We think she looks like a doll. A lady at the store came up to me last week and said "I've been watching you for awhile because I thought you were walking around with a doll- I can't believe that's a real baby. She's beautiful." Sweet and funny!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Mt. Hood

After the hike

On Friday, Jade had to make a quick day-trip to Portland for work, so he decided to extend the trip by 20 hours and spend some time with his favorite guys in the world- his dad and brothers. The past 2 years they've been trying to arrange a trip to climb Mt. Hood, but both years they weren't able to do it for one reason or another, so Jade was way excited when he found out they were finally going to be able to do it this year. Everything went well during the hike, thank goodness, and the boys had a blast. I'm so glad he was able to do it, now maybe it's out of his system and he won't need to do it again (I know it's fun for him, but it's so dangerous- lots of people die climbing Mt. Hood every year). Anyway, I'm so glad they were safe and had a good time. Jade loves every minute he spends with them, and I always wish they could spend more time together. Also, can you believe his dad is 61? I don't know anyone close to that age that is in as good of shape as him... wait to show those young guys! Climbing to the summit
That's the shadow of Mt. Hood, with the Pacific ocean in the background. GORGEOUS


In other news, I think I found something Peyton loves almost as much as the sunshine- her Peanut Shell. I wrote about it before, but she really can't get enough of it! I am now convinced that she loves it because it reminds her of the womb. I've been doing a lot of reading (of course), and they say the first few months of life are really like the "fourth trimester", and that for all intents and purposes, newborns are still fetuses. So that's my theory. Anyway, she loves the sling, and I love carrying her around so close to me. Plus, she looks darling in it. We had her 2 week checkup yesterday. She's regained all her birth weight, plus 4 ounces, so she's now 6lb 4 oz, which puts her in the 5th percentile for weight. She grew 3/4 of an inch, which makes her 19 3/4 inch long, and in the 28th percentile for height. The doctor said she looks perfect (like he needs to tell me that!) :)
Loving my Peanut Shell

Stink face- the face she makes when she's annoyed at us

That actually is how long she is, that's not just a bunch of fabric at the bottom

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Angel Baby

I don't know if you can tell, but she LOVED this. She slept for 3 hours under that umbrella

Well, it's been almost 2 weeks now, and I think I have the sweetest baby in the world. Peyton is such an angel. She's so calm and mellow and such a lover girl. The nursing is coming along (finally, thank goodness), so that has made a huge difference for both mom and daughter. We're still getting up twice a night to eat, but she almost always just eats and goes right back to sleep. She's not fussy at all (except when she's hungry), so that's wonderful. She's really a great baby and we love her so much. In the past week she has had her first real outings (last week she did errands with me, but that's hardly an outing); Jade's softball game (they won one!), the mall (she loved it of course), Boondocks family fun center (she rode with me in her peanut shell sling and absolutely loved it. Jade thinks it reminds her of her home the past 9 months. She was so happy in there, just sleeping away)- we even rode bumper boats together (she was in the sling), and the movies. She takes after me- she loves the heat and sunshine. If she's crying, we just go outside and she stops immediately and becomes really still and pacified. Needless to say, the two of us spend a lot of time together outside. Other big news this week: she's smiling more. It's not a voluntary thing, she usually just smiles every once in awhile when she's sleeping, but it's not just gas. She is starting to focus more on people's faces. I think developmentally we all still look like blobs at this age, but I know she recognizes me. She loves her car seat. She took her first nap in her crib, and slept forever. She loved it because her room is shared with the office, and since the office is "my" room, it's the hottest room in the house. Oh, and on Wednesday she slept from 5 am until 11 am. 6 hours straight! What an angel. Also my mom went home today. I feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown. I don't know if I'm ready to do this without her. I knew she'd leave eventually, but I feel like this was way too soon. She was such a huge help and I couldn't have done it without her. Despite my mom leaving, so far I feel like this was the job I was made to do. I know it's early and I know I'm going to make a ton of mistakes, but I can't imagine anything more rewarding than being a mom. Especially to this darling girl.

Her first real outing- daddy's softball game

Our babies

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Peyton Coy Thelin


It hasn't been a week yet, so I'm not too late. In case you hadn't heard, Peyton Coy is here! We couldn't be happier. If you read previous posts, you know we went to see the peri-natologist and they decided she was indeed not getting nutrition, so they induced me on Monday. If you want all the delivery details you can call me, but I'll just write that it was probably the best labor and delivery in the history of the world. The whole affair was 6 hours and 15 minutes, from the minute we checked in to the hospital to the minute she was born. My epidural worked like a charm, I didn't feel a thing. In fact, the worst pain I was in the entire time was when the new nurse (not Debbi or Jessica) tried unsuccessfully 3 times to put in my IV. I still have the bruise to show for it. I pushed 3 times a contraction for 10 seconds each push, and I pushed through 8 contractions total. She weighed 6 pounds (they thought she was only going to be 5 pounds 2 ounces), and was 19 inches long. She has gorgeous, big blue eyes and a ton of light brown hair, but the blondest eyebrows and eyelashes ever, which leads us to believe that her hair will lighten up to match (at least we hope she has matching hair and eyebrows). We stayed in the hospital the full 48 hours that our insurance covered, and we had the best nurses ever (Jessica and Debbi). They made the whole thing so easy and they took such amazing care of me. I really did not want to leave the hospital because they were so good to us! Dr. Judd, my OB/GYN whom I absolutely adore was out of town all week, so his partner, Dr. Gordon delivered me. He was great, but I do have to admit I would have loved Dr. Judd to be there. My mom and Cheyanne made it just in time for the delivery, we held off pushing until they got to the hospital, just in time! They've been here helping us, and let me tell you... my mom is an angel. I don't know what I'd do without her here. I really will have a nervous breakdown when she leaves. Tink loves her new baby sister, but Jade and I decided Tink is hoping she's just a visitor. She's been great with the baby though, and her favorite thing about having a baby sister is licking milk off her mouth. Everyone is healthy and happy. We're starting to get the hang of nursing, which nobody warned us would be this hard. Thank goodness I have the best cousin-in-law/personal nurse ever, who is just a phone call away. Jessica has been a life saver. Peyton has been great. She sleeps a ton and eats a ton and doesn't do a whole lot else. We love when she's awake because she does such cute things. She yawns, sneezes, coughs, makes a "stink face" when she's frustrated, sucks on her hands, makes kissy faces when she's hungry and rooting, curls up into a little ball when you lay her on your chest (she makes herself SO small), and when she startles, she throws her arms out and it looks like she's trying to give hugs. We realized she likes to suck, even when she's not hungry, so we gave her a binkie, and when she sleeps, she keeps her hand on it, palm down, fingers outstretched, like she's guarding it. Our favorite thing she does is sleep pretty well through the night. She usually only wakes up once or twice. She's absolutely perfect, and it's crazy to think how much we love her, even though shejust got here. I'm already feeling the post-partum blues, I cry when I think about her getting big. I'm just not ready for her to grow up, and I want her to stay this small forever. But, we're so grateful to have a happy and healthy baby. She is amazing and we're so in love.
Right after she was born


After they bathed her (I still look stoned)



Proud Daddy



Proud momma




Her first outfit


Our family (minus Tink)

Going home from the hospital


Peanut


Snoozing


Tinker loves baby

Monday, June 16, 2008

IT'S TIME

Well, we just went to see the peri-natologist and the baby isn't getting nourished- the placenta is failing. So we're on our way to the hopspital. I'm being induced today. Are you ready to meet baby Thelin? Because she's coming, whether I feel ready or not.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

5 pounds 2 ounces


On Thursday I went in to my doctor's for my 38 week check-up, and the doctor said he could tell the baby was still super small, so he sent me to get an ultrasound real quick to see exactly how small she is. It turns out she's normal for height, head size, and femur bone length (which I guess is the growth bone, so that's why they measure it for size), but her tummy is really small. She's in the 21st percentile for weight right now, and if she goes full-term, she will be under the 10th percentile, which is really tiny. Right now she's 5 pounds, 2 ounces and usually at 38 weeks babies are around 6 and a half pounds. My doctor said it's nothing to be worried about, she seems to be perfectly healthy, just small. On Monday I'm going to go see a peri-natology specialist to see if there's a reason she's so tiny. If she's not getting enough nourishment, my doctor said we'll probably have to get her out sooner than later, so we can fatten her up. Anyway, I'll update as soon as I hear news on Monday. Also, I forgot to write the best news... She's still a girl! I haven't had an ultrasound since 20 weeks, and I was starting to have nightmares that she is going to come out a boy. Thankfully she's still a girl!

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Last Vacation Ever


As many of you know, since October I've been pestering Jade to take me on a romantic getaway, Just the 2 of us, for the last time ever before we're parents. We've taken a bunch of vacations, but I wanted to just have a couple days where it was just me and him, I didn't care where, or what we did, I just wanted to be alone, since I know once I have this baby our lives will never be the same again. Well, JC had graduation on Tuesday, and since we wouldn't miss that for the world, we decided to take a long weekend and make a vacation out of the occasion. Friday after work, Jade and I drove down to Mesquite and stayed the night at the Casablanca. Jade had a gigantic $11 steak (which he said was actually pretty good), and we lost $2 on the nickel machines. In the morning, Jade played a shotgun 18 holes of golf, and surprised me with a massage and facial (he didn't actually perform the services- just made the appointments). It was SO nice! The spa there is actually beautiful and had a 98 degree pool that I wanted to lay in forever. After golf and the spa, we ate at a buffet (of course) and then headed down to Vegas. We dropped Tinky off at my mom's and then went and checked into our hotel- The Trump. Holy cow... It was the nicest hotel I've ever been in, in my entire life. It was incredible. I cannot do it justice, so I'm not even going to try, I'll just say that it was amazing. It's 5-star, 5-diamond, just opened April 1st, and the entire property is non-smoking. The suite we stayed in cost $900 a night (no, we didn't actually pay that much). There was even an LCD TV built into the mirror in the master bathroom (yes, we had multiple bathrooms in our suite). Saturday night we went to a comedy show at the Golden Nugget called "Defending the Caveman", which was like a battle of the sexes-type comedy. It was really funny. Jade and I lost $17 gambling, and we saw the coolest thing- the pool at the hotel had a glass tube slide that went through an aquarium, with 3 large sharks in it, plus lots of little sharks and fish. Jade wants to put one in our next house. It was really neat. After the show we walked around old Las Vegas and watched a Queen tribute at Freemont Street. Sunday we slept in, ate lunch at Nordstrom Cafe (I love that place and I still don't understand why our Nordstrom doesn't have one). Then we went to the pool at our hotel and laid out all afternoon. The pool was ridiculous. There were 5 or 6 attendants, bringing stuff around every 10 minutes. There were drinks, waters, cold towels, a cool misting spray, marinated cucumber slices, watermelon, etc. They had little cabana beds that we napped on and rafts in the pool that we lounged on for hours (literally). Sunday night we walked all around the strip (I was secretly hoping to go into labor so I could have my baby in Vegas) and had dinner and dessert and I even held a parrot that some lady had in front of the Mirage. Monday morning I did not want to check out of our hotel! But we did, and we went to help set up for JC's graduation party. The party was so much fun. There were a ton of people there and it was so great to see all our family and friends. Tuesday morning the boys went shooting and the girls went to see Christopher and Brittney's new baby Julia, who is absolutely gorgeous and HUGE. Then we went to get our nails done. At the nail salon, something crazy happened for the first time- a total stranger touched my belly. It was my nail lady. She told me to sit down, then she put both her hands on my belly and said "girl or boy?" After we got our nails done, we went to JC's graduation. I cannot believe he's a high school graduate! I can't believe he's so old! After graduation we went to dinner at his favorite restaurant (Claim Jumper- another thing UT is missing). Then Jade, Tink, and I headed back to Utah. I always get so sad when I leave Vegas, even if I know I'm coming back soon. Luckily I have Jade to make Utah more bearable.

That's our hotel in the background
The parrot.


The pool with that crazy slide I was talking about (see, I wasn't making it up)